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Okay so this is where we find problems with verse numbers yet again. In the Jewish Publication Society version (JPS) this verse is a continuation of 20:13. However, in the NIV, KJV, and the most popular versions around this verse of the Ten Commandments (“No Adultery”) is listed as a separate numeric verse, 20:14.
Here is the verse:
Exodus 20:13b or 20:14
לא תנאף׃
“No Adultery” (second person imperative)
or
“Thou shalt not commit adultery.”
Below I’ve included the outline for the class that day, a rare occurrence:
20:14 no adultery לא תנאף׃
7th commandment
- Adultery defined:
- Only with married woman (Rashi)
i. True to patriarchal society
ii. Unmarried woman cannot
iii. Married or unmarried man can
- More about this later
- Why next after Murder?
- Murder will destroy society
- Adultery will destroy the family: which will kill society
i. Family is building block of society
- Torah & 10 NOT preoccupied with SEX.
- Lust no issue
- Premarital sex no issue
i. This comes later w/ NT
- Whose Responsible:
- Both parties
- Punishment:
i. Death (stoning)
- 2 eye witnesses (good standing)
- had to be warned immediately prior to act
- temple exist
- Sanhedrin exist
- Compared to Others:
- N.E. laws Husband could nullify the offense (not prosecute)
i. Wife is sole property of Husband
ii. He has total say on her outcome
iii. Considered “great sin” in Gen. (Av/Sar and Avimelech)
- NOT in Judaism
i. Offense to Husband
ii. Offense to God
iii. Offense to Society (family, community, religion)
- Permission to Adulterate: open marriage
- Still Transgression
- Still punished
- Patriarchy?
- Man takes possession of woman (purchase)
i. Woman wears ring (betrothal)
- Children
i. No doubt who mother is
ii. If adulterous tremendous doubt who father is
- Man could have multiple wives
i. Generate more family
- Patriarchy or Matriarchy or Egalitarian
i. Patriarchy: unfair to women but good for children
ii. Matriarchy: no significant existence
iii. Egalitarian: fair but poor consequence to both sexes & seems not good for children
- Male / female different and equal
- Men don’t marry.
- Men don’t father.
- Tremendous divorce.
- Male Sexual Nature:
- Variety
- Can be Meaningless & Masturbatory experience
i. Versus Female sexual nature:
ii. Versus Female Relations (social intercourse)
- Prefer husband have intimate lunch with female coworker or one night at a massage parlour?
- So is it eternally binding? (as defined)
- How is it applied today?
i. Adultery applies to both Husband and Wife TODAY:
- Child: Today child belongs to MOTHER.
- Marriage: No polygamy allowed ( so man must divorce to get marry another woman)
- Social Intercourse: Modern Work-Place
ii. Adultery is NOT strictly sexual (many passions counter to sanctity of bond)
- Work
- Sports
- Friends
- Family
- Children